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"STOP the FIGHT!"

WORK WITH ME!

Achieve SUCCESS TODAY!
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Customized Coaching For Dads

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I have helped men overcome challenges in every aspect of their lives including: crippling anxiety at work, parent child relationships, coping with medical diagnosis, struggles getting it done at work or at home, marriage conflicts, accomplishing goals, effective time management, overcoming pornography,  self-doubt/self-judgement, business strategy, family relationships, money/debt, health/weight loss, struggling in college and more.   

 

I've coached men ranging in age from 18-70 with whatever challenges they are facing and I can help YOU!

  • Would you like help reclaiming control over your life? 

  • Do you constantly feel exhausted, overwhelmed and frustrated at home? 

  • Is there constant contention and fighting within your family relationships?

  • Do you feel like your emotions are out of control at times  and that your wife and kids are taking the brunt of it?

  • Would you like to better understand yourself and your child so that you can be a more effective parent?

  • Do you find yourself feeling stuck and unable to move forward with things that are important to you?

  • Are there times where your anxiety becomes crippling and you just don't know how to get moving again?

  • Do you need help to achieve your goals in life?

I CAN HELP YOU WITH THAT!

SUCCESS Life Coaching For Dads!
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Want to...
STOP fighting with your child?
STOP fighting with your wife?
STOP fighting with yourself?​

"I can help you
achieve
SUCCESS
at home!
1-
with your kids!

Parenting doesn't have to be so hard! Together I'll help you prioritize your efforts, develop successful parenting strategies and implement a plan that meets the needs of your unique family dynamic.  You will build authentic relationships with your kids based on love, trust and mutual respect.  Want to achieve parenting success, day after day?  I'm here to help! 

2-
with your wife!

She's your better half, so give her the best you've got!  I'll provide you with the tools you need to create a more fulfilling, unified and intimate  relationship with the person you love the most.   Enhance your ability to work together as a team in parenting and in life.  Are you ready to take your marriage relationship to a whole new level?  You're going to love this! 

3-
with yourself!

You deserve to have the support you need!  I'm here to help you discover a new perspective on how you live your life.  You'll received guided support on exploring what you really want, setting goals and accountability.  Develop the skills you need to accomplish your wildest dreams.  Do you want to expand your ability to achieve SUCCESS in all aspects of life?  

Let's get started!

Everything you need.
Nothing you don't!

I'ts customized to your family, your ideal life and your needs.  No wasted time or energy.  A fast track to SUCCESS!

  • Exactly what you need. 

  • Focused on your challenges. 

  • Exceeding your expectations.

Here's what's included:

4 private coaching sessions in 6 weeks. Each 1:1 session is customized to address your immediate needs.  Sessions are 30min over Zoom so you can easily fit it into your already busy schedule from wherever you are.  You choose the best date/time for you and I'll come prepared to coach you and help you any way I can!  You'll be AMAZED how much 30min a week and unmatched support can change your life!  No time to waste!

6 weeks weekly personal enrichment. 

Additional resources, prompts, trainings and optional group sessions will be provided and customized to your needs.  These enrichment activities will give you additional training and guidance as you apply what you've learned. 

I work with men who are ALL IN and committed to make changes.  If you're ready to take action, I'm ready to help you!

Direct access for needed support. 

I want you to have the support you need when you need it.  You can contact me directly via email for additional support and accountability when you need it most. 

Do you want support every step of the way? I'm here to help you on your journey to SUCCESS!

Are you ready to GET STARTED?

Frequently Asked Questions
I’m so EXCITED for you to start this journey to SUCCESS at home and in life!
I hope you are too!  You may also have a few questions, so I’ve included here some
FAQs about life coaching.

  • What can I expect in my private coaching sessions?
    Individual sessions last 30 minuets and are held virtually over Zoom. We will discuss the areas of your life that are in conflict with what you truly desire. With curiosity we will examine your thoughts, feelings and actions to see clearly how you are showing up in your daily life. Through a series of conversations and activities, I will help you shift your perspective and approach to challenging situations. Major changes take time, but we will develop successful strategies each time we visit so you can begin implementing them immediately. What happens in our short time together, will shift your day to day responses and habits. Your mind will expand to new possibilities and your understanding about yourself and others will increase. As your coach I am your advocate and support, but I am also willing to tell you the truth and help you see errors in your thoughts and actions that are keeping you from achieving your goals. You will be give the opportunity to share whatever problems you are facing, you will be offered new ideas and options to consider but in the end the choice is yours how you will move forward. I will be there to support you every step of the way!
  • What's the difference between therapy and coaching?
    A therapist can assess, diagnose, and medically treat mental health illnesses. They often focus on an individual’s past to help understand what is creating their current situation and support them with applicable therapeutic methods and treatments. A life coach helps create awareness for the individual so they can see clearly the impact their thoughts, feelings and actions are having on their life and know how to make changes in the pursuit of different results. They explore relationships, problem solving, goal achievement, decision making, etc. Life coaches help individuals see clearly their current situation and help them move forward towards the future they desire. They spend less time exploring the past and spend more time helping their clients see their current circumstances clearly, helping them determine the cause of their current problems and helping them develop the skills needed to create successful strategies for getting unstuck and moving forward towards a brighter future. Sometimes a person can benefit from both therapy and life coaching. If you are currently working with a therapist you might ask them if life coaching would also be beneficial to you.
  • What if I've never talked to anyone but my wife or close friends about these things?
    Of course you haven't! We all try to keep our personal and family challenges private. Sometimes this is part of the problem. Our close family and friends are too invested to give us objective perspectives because they too are emotionally involved. Talking with a coach is totally different than talking with your wife or your friend. As a coach, I've worked with dozens of other people to help them see where they are really stuck and see a bigger picture. It's really hard for our close friends and family to do that. Family and friends will probably by willing to give you a lot of advice, but as your coach, I'll help you see the bigger picture. Yes, you can talk with your wife or your friend and maybe feel better for a little while, but have you noticed that you just keep getting stuck in the same pattern? What's different about talking with a coach is I offer tangible tools and strategies you can implement to get yourself UNSTUCK and out of that rut instead of just blowing off steam every time you face this same problem. If you feel like you need permission to share, talk with your wife first. Let her know about your idea to get some life coaching. Tell her why you think it would be helpful to talk with someone else. Many of my clients come telling me "I had this idea to sign up for life coaching. I told my wife about it and she encouraged me to try it!" So tell her your plan. Share with her what you are learning and trying. Let your wife cheer you on!
  • Can my wife join me on our call?
    Yes, I'd love to have her join us. If you'd like to invite your wife to join so we can discuss together the challenges you are facing, do it. I believe strongly in working together as unified partners. I love doing couples coaching so bring your wife anytime!
  • Do I need to be a man in order for you to work with me?
    No. I love working with men, but I am more than happy to work with women as well. The tools and strategies I utilize work with anyone!
  • What if I struggle to justify spending money on myself?
    At work you spend money on professional development, no questions asked. You take continuing education classes and trainings without a second thought. Yet many men hesitate to invest in their personal development. Why? Do you really believe your natural instincts should just be kicking in and you should know what to do without any additional cost/effort? Knowing how to be a better husband, father and human being doesn't just happen. The growth and change you will experience through life coaching with benefit not only you but your entire family! Investing in yourself is totally worth it! You are worth it!
  • Is it right for me? I just don't know.
    The truth is you DO know! You know that your current approach isn't working. You know that you've tried everything you can think of. You know that you need help, that something has to change. That change can happen within you! It's always hard to make a decision to try something new. Hesitation is totally normal because change requires effort. Not making a decision, and staying on the fence is easier than making a decision and getting to work on making the changes you need. The truth is your brain doesn't want to do that extra work. It wants to just leave things as they are. When your brain tells you that's too scary or it will be too hard, it's trying to protect you from the unknown. It's trying to keep you safe. But remember, I'm here to help you! Yes, it will take effort. Yes, changes can be hard. YES, you can do it! I'll be here to help you every step of the way! Life coaching is right for you! You can decide now, you already know you need to make a change for things to get better! Give it a try with the FREE "STOP the FIGHT!" Mini-Session. Bring your biggest challenge and I'll help you with one successful solution to try right away!
  • What if I can't make my scheduled session?
    No problem! Just re-schedule 24hours in advance for a time that works better for you! I give you 6 weeks to schedule 4 private sessions so you've got plenty of time!
  • How should I spread out my sessions?
    You have 6 weeks to schedule your 4 private coaching sessions. This allows flexibility for scheduling and time for application and experimentation. Here's my suggested schedule: Week 1- Session 1 Week 2 - Session 2 Week 3- (Application Week) Week 4 - Session 3 Week 5 - (Application Week) Week 6 - Session 4 Remember, every week you will receive enrichment materials and application suggestions. I think it's valuable to give yourself some extra time to apply and experiment between sessions. This is a suggested timeline but you are welcome to schedule your sessions ANYTIME you like!
  • What if I need help between coaching calls?
    I am available to support you via email M-F throughout the 6-week program for additional guidance and accountability.
  • Can I just try it out and see how I like it?
    YES, that's what the FREE "STOP the FIGHT!" Mini-Session is for. We will do a short coaching session together during that call so you can see what it's like and decide if it's right for you! Share with me your biggest fight and I'll help you with one successful strategy to try, no charge!
  • Can I get additional sessions and work with you longer?
    After completing your 6 week program, you will have the option to renew for an additional 6 weeks! I'm willing to work with you as long as it takes for you to achieve the SUCCESS you are striving for!
  • Yes, I want this. How do I sign up?
    Sign up for your FREE "STOP the FIGHT!" Mini-Session and I'll hellp you get started!

What my clients say...

If you're ready to
"STOP the FIGHT!"
and start achieving SUCCESS at home. 

If you're ready to start creating your ideal life, with a coach dedicated to helping you every step of the way.


You're invited to sign up now!

THE INVESTMENT: 

$500 per

6-week session

THE PERSONAL SUPPORT:

 

EXCEEDS EXPECTATIONS!

WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE:

UNIMAGINABLE SUCCESS!

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Sign-up NOW for your

I'll help you look at your most pressing problem and we will come up with one strategy for how you can "STOP the FIGHT!" and move from SURVIVAL to SUCCESS!​

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