DAD'S PERSPECTIVE
Just Trying To SURVIVE?
Dad,
What's Your Approach?
When the tension at home is high.
When you keep fighting the same battles day after day.
When you feel like you've got to always be on guard.
What's Your Approach?
Do you ESCAPE or SURVIVE?
If you ESCAPE:
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You make plans to be away
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You take the long road home
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You work extra long hours to stay away
If you SURVIVE:
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You just put your head down and wait it out
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You scroll & dream about future vacations & hobbies
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You watch tv or put in your earphones to shut out the chaos
But ESCAPING & SURVIVING don't solve the problem...
What if there is another choice...
What if you could...
SUCCEED At HOME!!
Successful Dads Build Upon
Foundational Principles
EMOTIONAL RESPONSIBILITY
Learn Effective
Parenting Skills
Create
Connection Strategies
Overcome
Instinctual Response
RELATIONSHIP
OVER ROUTINE
Use Collaborative
Problem Solving
Develop
Trusting Relationships
Strengthen
Family Bonds
- COACHING -
NOT CONTROLING
Exercise
Mindful Discipline
Enable Flexible Parenting Strategies
Enhance
Self-Confidence
UNIFIED
PARTNERS
Enrich Effective
Communication
Solidify Goal Setting
& Time Management
Become
Active Creators
YOU CAN DO IT!
YOU will be successful at work, at home and in life!
YOU will develop and enjoy strong family relationships
based on love, trust and mutual respect.
YOU will learn these foundational principles
and how to apply them to your life.
YOU will create a life for you and your family
that you can't wait to get home to!
YOU CAN DO IT!
What will YOU discover through life coaching...
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How to make parenting easier than ever, stop the power struggles and get the respect you want.
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What tools you need to actually help your child, without having to dedicate every spare moment to parenting and conflict.
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Why Dads with the most difficult kids have been successful with this strategy...and what kept them from discovering it earlier!
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Unified with your partner.
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Enhanced marriage relationship.
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Strengthen family bonds.
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Feel in control of yourself.
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Know how to prioritize and focus.
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Lead by example.
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Feel confident.
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Stop Burn-out.
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Better understand yourself and others.
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Reclaim your personal identity.
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Successfully Iive your own life.
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Stop surviving and start SUCCEEDING at home!
If I could just get my kid to behave...
My kid's behavior is out of control and I don't know what else to do!
I know my kid is struggling but I don't know what else to try! I feel like I've tried everything, but nothing is getting my kid to obey me. Our home life is chaos! The tension in is high and all our relationships are suffering because of the constant strain. My kid won't follow instructions or obey the rules and routines I've set up. This causes constant FIGHTS with me, with my wife and with my other kids. I feel completely exhausted and overwhelmed. I feel like I should be able to handle it, but I just can't....Tell Me More!
When children exhibit negative behaviors (biting, yelling, hitting, running, swearing, destroying, etc...) what they really are trying to communicate is that they are STUCK! If you, the parent, are STUCK too, you've got a lot of unsolved problems to work out. Trouble is, it's hard to know where to start, or even what the problems are! That's where coaching comes in!
In our coaching sessions together, we will explore ...Tell Me More!
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I'll help you look at your most pressing problem and we will come up with one strategy for how you can "STOP the FIGHT!" and move from SURVIVAL to SUCCESS!
What my clients say...
"I started reminding myself to consider my initial reactions and decide if I could view the interaction differently."
"She asks questions to help peel back the layers of your thoughts and help identify areas where you can grow. She has an assortment of resources to share based on where the conversation headed for the day, whether it is an inspirational video or a goal model with thoughts, feelings, and an action plan!"
"Life coaching has helped me try to be in the moment more and take the time to reflect."
"Nicole has help me see and put into perspective what I am facing and how to navigate my feelings and thoughts to look at my next personal conflict through a different set of glasses."
"Processing emotions about my spouse's cancer diagnosis and the way my children are dealing with the experience isn't always the most comfortable experience, but having a coach to talk me through it has been MUCH better than going it alone."
"It has helped me to change my perspectives on things and learn to think outside the box a bit."
"Just having someone to help me articulate what I'm feeling, to organize my thoughts and be confident in my decisions has been so beneficial and made a big difference in the way I perceive some of the issues I'm dealing with."
"Her ability to guide a conversation, listen to answers, and provide insight and resources is AMAZING!"
"Nicole has always been understanding no matter what is going on in my life during the week. She is always willing to listen."
"Nicole's coaching helped me to focus on specific goals in my life instead of trying to accomplish everything right now. This has helped me to eliminate unnecessary tasks from my daily routine which has reduced my daily stress load! It was stress that I didn't even know I was carrying around."
"Her ability to guide a conversation, listen to answers, and provide insight and resources is AMAZING!"
"Nicole is helping me change the way I look at my circumstances from a perspective of helplessness to one that is more empowered, hopeful, confident, and with compassion for myself and others."
"Nicole will help people who are more interested in taking a spiritual approach to solving life’s problems. She does a great job asking thought provoking questions that help aid you in solving your own problem and coming up with a solution."
"It has helped me to change my perspectives on things and learn to think outside the box a bit."
"It has helped me focus on what I want from life."
"I really appreciate the thoughts and insights Nicole shared with me. I am continuing to use the techniques we spoke about and that she sent in the emails. They have been very helpful."
"On a future day, you will look back on this cherished and exciting adventure of mortality, and you will understand. You will see that the dots really do connect into a beautiful pattern, more sublime than you ever could have imagined.
With unspeakable gratitude you will see that God himself in his abounding love, grace and compassion was always there watching over you, blessing you and guiding your steps as you walked toward him."